In the world of parenting and play, there’s a powerful message that transcends traditional gender norms and expectations. It’s a message that reminds us that toys have no gender distinctions, and children should be free to explore their interests and develop their personalities without restrictions.
Meet Jysen, a young boy whose heartwarming connection with a doll named Three has captured the attention of many. This touching story begins with Ashley Mae, a photographer based in Shelbyville, Indiana, who skillfully uses her talents to capture the beauty of life.
Ashley explained, “My husband is in the military, so when he is deployed, I like to take our kids to Walmart to buy them something special to brighten their day or make them feel better.” It was during one of these trips that Jysen, while browsing through the “boys’ toys” aisle, expressed his desire for a doll.
Not just any doll, though—Jysen pointed to a doll named Three and carefully selected a stroller and bottles for her. The origin of the name “Three” remains a mystery, but what’s clear is the special connection that Jysen shares with his chosen companion.
Ashley, upon hearing Jysen’s request for a photo session with Three, eagerly embraced the opportunity to capture their bond. She wrapped Three in a stretchy wrap and guided Jysen through the session. “He’s used to being in front of my camera and is a natural model, so this session was pretty typical; we just added his ‘baby’ into the mix,” Ashley shared.
Since the photo series went viral, Ashley has received both positive and negative comments. While many have expressed love and support, some have questioned Jysen’s choice of playing with a doll, particularly one of a different race. However, Ashley stands unwaveringly in her support of her son.
“I am teaching him to love regardless of race. I am instructing him to stand tall when necessary,” Ashley affirmed. She recognizes that her son, despite enjoying motocross and outdoor play, has a softer side, and that’s something she values.
Ashley firmly believes that there’s nothing wrong with a boy playing with a doll, and that such experiences foster compassion and love. She also emphasizes the importance of breaking away from preconceived notions of what is “normal.”
“It was essential for me to share my perspective to show that it’s acceptable to play with a variety of toys. Toys have no gender distinctions,” Ashley stated. “My son will become more compassionate and loving as a result of playing with dolls.”
As Jysen’s father has returned from deployment, Three may receive slightly less attention, but the heartwarming photographs of their bond will forever hold a special place in Ashley’s heart.
In a world that often tries to define what is “normal” for boys and girls, Jysen’s story serves as a powerful reminder that love, compassion, and play have no boundaries. It’s a story that encourages us all to embrace our true selves and let children be free to explore and grow without limitations.
