In the heart of Queens resides an extraordinary woman, Digna Carpio, who received an exceptional gift this Mother’s Day that has captured the hearts of many. Back in October, she welcomed six healthy babies into the world, an event that not only multiplied the size of her bustling household but also brought forth immeasurable joy and unique challenges. Digna’s journey as a mother of sextuplets is a tale of strength, resilience, and the boundless power of familial love.
Digna’s contentment shines through as she shares, “Just being together, having a quiet and relaxing day with all of my babies, is enough.” Yet, a chuckle follows as she playfully admits, “But ‘relaxing’ and ‘quiet’ do not come easily to this house anymore.” It’s evident that the Carpio household has undergone a transformation, with the arrival of the sextuplets adding an unmistakable vibrancy to their lives.
Partnered with her husband Victor, Digna is navigating the intricate balance between the joys and demands of raising such a large family. With an 8-year-old son named Jhan Carlos already in the picture, the couple is stepping up to the challenges that come with their full house. “It’s tough going out with six babies,” Digna explains, “Just knowing they are with me, happy and healthy, is the best feeling.”
Inside their cozy living room, six bassinets line up in an orderly fashion, cradling the babies as they discover the world around them. Though they might appear identical at first glance, Digna lovingly affirms, “To others, they look the same. I already know who is who.” Each child is already displaying a distinct personality, adding to the uniqueness of their family dynamics.
However, the journey of raising sextuplets isn’t without its financial challenges. The Carpio family faces mounting bills – from electricity to baby food and diapers – that strain their budget. Victor, a hardworking maintenance worker, earns a modest biweekly salary of $900, underscoring the financial sacrifices they’re making to ensure their children’s wellbeing.
These sextuplets are not just a source of joy within their family but also a rarity in history. Among New York couples, they mark only the second set of sextuplets born, and they’re believed to be the first Hispanic sextuplets in the history of the United States. This uniqueness comes with both awe and responsibility for Digna and Victor.
Support comes in the form of two nurses from the Visiting Nurses of New York, who assist in caring for the babies. But once they leave at 6 p.m., Digna and Victor brace themselves for sleepless nights and demanding days. Yet, even in the face of challenges, Digna’s gaze remains fixed on the future. “I don’t want to get overwhelmed,” she reflects, “I’m already thinking I’m going to need a van or a bus to take them to school.”
Though financial constraints may continue to be a reality, the sight of their adorable children’s faces makes every sacrifice worthwhile. Digna encapsulates her emotions, “Sometimes I feel like I’m going to go crazy, and then I look at them. It’s the best feeling. It’s the best gift for a mother.”
Digna Carpio’s journey as a mother of sextuplets embodies strength, love, and resilience. Her story stands as a testament to the profound bonds of family and the joy that can be unearthed amidst life’s challenges. As Mother’s Day is celebrated, let us pay homage to Digna and all mothers who embrace the deep joys and sacrifices that come with nurturing a growing family.
