Natasha regularly uploads videos of herself and Raedyn on the widely used social media platform TikTok. Unfortunately, her posts attract not only likes and positive comments but also numerous pleas for her to stop sharing photos and videos of her child.
Despite the hurtful comments, Natasha has a powerful message for her critics. “He is perfect despite his appearance, even though he looks different,” she asserts.
Raedyn was born with Pfeiffer syndrome, a condition that causes abnormalities in the extremities, face, and skull. Despite his diagnosis, Natasha firmly believes that her son is perfect just as he is, and she proudly continues to share his journey through videos.
However, the overwhelming majority of feedback Natasha receives is negative. She frequently encounters comments like “What kind of life will he have?” and even harsher judgments on TikTok. People’s insensitivity reaches beyond the online world, as some individuals approach her in public, posing intrusive and offensive questions about her child’s appearance.
Facing such relentless scrutiny takes a toll on Natasha, making public appearances increasingly difficult. She shares, “It’s stressful to explain my son’s health issues over and over again.” The fact that her son’s appearance garners so much attention is perplexing to her. “He lives the same life as any other child… Does he look different? Yes. Does that make him any less? Absolutely not.”
Natasha passionately emphasizes, “He deserves to live and be accepted – I will fight until my last breath for this.”
Natasha yearns for people to recognize that she is just a mother, and Raedyn is simply a baby. Their lives do not revolve around his illness. She longs for a world where disabled individuals are embraced and no longer discriminated against based on their appearance and abilities.
This unfortunate episode highlights the persistent tendency to criticize and ostracize those who are different. Hopefully, society will evolve to be more compassionate and inclusive. Our heartfelt support goes out to Natasha and Raedyn. Let your kindness join theirs in combating negativity.